Skip to main content

Hump Day

You have to say that like the camel in the commercial.

Yesterday on my way into work the weather person on the radio announced that the high would be 88, but it would feel like 97.  You know what that is?  A lot of humidity, a lot of wasted time on fixing hair that would look flat and lifeless at the end of the day.  Thankfully, I had my much needed hair appointment yesterday afternoon.  I got a fresh new color and cut, and I feel much better.  I know you guys don't understand how that happens.  It's ok, we don't really want you to understand because it's our party and you're not invited.

C is at the age where he can have me rolling in the floor with his humor.  The other night to encourage him to eat the main part of his meal, I would give him one chip for every bite he took of the good stuff.  Stop your judgment immediately; you do whatever works at this age.  At one point he had three chips on his plate, one large, one medium, one small.  He pointed to the large one and said, "That's Daddy."  He told me the medium one was Mommy (Thank goodness I wasn't the big one), and the littlest one was him.  I was impressed by his imagination, he learns so much at this age.  It was also just extremely cute...for a moment. While he's chomping down on the largest chip, I said, "No! You're eating Daddy!".  His reply, "I break his neck."  Is it odd to be frightened of your two year old?

I can narrow down the places where he would have picked up an understanding of doing bodily harm to another person.  Prime example of why he's starting at a new preschool next week.  It was either at daycare or watching wrestling with his Uncle J.  Lord knows he tried out plenty of WWE (get the "F" out!) moves on me during our childhoods.  We took the opportunity to talk about what the Bible says about being kind to one another, but I have a feeling it won't be the last time such a discussion is necessitated.

 Today marks one year ago that we put our house in South AL on the market.  It was with that decision that we made an actual commitment to the plan of moving back north.  It was truly difficult to trust that things would work out, that we were doing what we were supposed to do. You try so hard to tune-in to God's voice and direction, learning to trust Him with it all.  When you're making decisions that involve not just you, but your spouse, your child, it's difficult.  M has now moved twice for my career, and I feared he might start to resent me.  It was a challenge for me to sit back, pray, and trust that God would give him the same vision that He had given me.  M is a stubborn man, and I knew that if I lectured, and presented, and pleaded my case, he would dig his heels in.  Thankfully, I was able to "let go and let God" (please forgive me for that awful cliché).

I don't think we could be any happier with the way things turned out.  God lined up the dominoes in an intricate pattern that only He could foresee and understand, and when His time was just right they all fell according to their purpose.  I'm so glad to live in His embrace.

Y'all have a great Hump Day!

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

What they don't tell you

Was it hard? Was it runny? Was it normal? Did it smell really bad? Was there a huge mess? What it discolored? No one tells you when you're in the beginning stages of falling in love.  Nobody wants to shatter the fairytale/"The Notebook" illusion you've created in your mind.  They just don't have the gumption to confess to you that one day when your beloved calls you at work, the above may be the extent of your entire conversation.  They don't tell you that you'll feel completely normal discussing "it".  They wouldn't dream to explain how interested you could be in "it".  Nope.  These people, these ones who've paved the way before you, who've told you your whole life that "it" is not an acceptable topic of civilized conversation, they never let you in on the secret.  One day, you'll have complete dialogs about poop.  Ah, how romantic. C has had some stomach issues off and on this week. I got called to c...

Hard workin'

Is it sad to be glad to come back to work on Monday just so you can sit down in a comfortable chair while the air conditioning keeps you at a reasonable temperature?  Yes, that is sad?  Well then, I'm sad. I'll back up a little first. You didn't hear from me on Thursday - you're welcome.  I promise it was better that way.  I would either have cried or killed you with one look, it was too hard to tell. However, Thursday night was wonderful.  M and I went to parent orientation at C's new preschool and left knowing he was going to have a great year.  This will be the first time my baby has to  have a backpack, with his own snacks, and learning objectives, and, and, just pass me the tissues.  My baby is too big. Friday I was in Hville for a CPE class which was about as exciting as you're imagining it was.  We had a wonderful evening at home eating a gourmet meal and watching a family movie.  No.  That's what normal peo...

#screwthescale

Well, the time is nigh!  Pre-op appointment was yesterday afternoon, surgery is next Tuesday, the 17th!  I have spent the last month inundating myself with information, FB groups, blog posts, success stories, pins for recipes, protein powder subscriptions, etc.  I am ready.  The fears are lessened as I armor myself with support and information, and I know that with prayer and the right attitude and determination, I can become the person God has designed me to be. As part of all the various support groups I have become part of, I have learned some new terminology.  Daily, actually multiple times daily, various persons within these groups will share parts of their journeys.  Almost always, these posts include their "stats".  Their HW/SW/CW/GW, being their high weight, surgery weight, current weight, and goal weight.  In that vein, I wanted to share MY stats, as a way to reinforce my beliefs and goals throughout the upcoming marathon journey. HW:...